In Sri Lanka, where the average wage is less than $3,000 a year, the rich and famous do not hesitate to spend perhaps $30,000 dollars on the party of a lifetime. The BBC's
Charles Haviland spent the day at the society wedding of a popular singer, 24-year-old Nadini Premadasa, to her businessman sweetheart, Madura Abeyesinghe, 28.
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Women in white and gold saris and sparkling headdresses step forward with plates of mango.
Men in turbans and sarongs, red and white, beat drums and chant.
As she arrives at her high-society wedding at a luxury hotel, the bride is given a welcome fit for royalty.
For the groom's entrance, dancers somersault in the air and spin round him.
The singers and dancers from Kandy in Sri Lanka's central highlands could have stepped straight from the courts of the last kings of Ceylon.
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Nadini Premadasa is a young singing star, and some of the country's best-known musicians, TV stars and celebrities are here to see her marry Madura Abeyesinghe.
Yet at the heart of this glitzy ceremony, in the corner of this grand ballroom, is a simple platform that you might find in any ordinary Sinhalese village.
It is on this poruwa that a bride and groom come together in marriage, with a Buddhist holy man presiding and chanting.
The couple take part in a series of rituals as their close families pray, their heads bowed.
Six young girls in white, known as the jayamangala gatha, come to bless the marriage, one playing the violin while others sing.
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The bride's father ties the nuptial knot, briefly joining Nadini and Madura's little fingers with a thread considered sacred.
Then both fathers pour holy water on the couple's hands to mark the moment of their marriage.
Rings are exchanged - as in Western societies - and the bridegroom places a jewelled necklace around his bride's neck.
She is presented with a cloth, the sari she will wear in a couple of day's time at the ceremony known as the Homecoming, hosted by the groom's family.
A coconut is broken and an oil lamp is lit, symbolising good luck, and a new start.
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Then the festivities begin.
With one hand each on the bottle, Nadini and Madura pour champagne into a pyramid of glasses, before greeting the guests, table by table.
This is a huge day for them and it seems no expense has been spared on the entertainment, the food and drink, or the styling of the bride.
"Every girl has her dreams," Dhananjaya Bandara, the stylist for the bride and five bridesmaids, tells the BBC.
"Sri Lankan girls dream of their bridal day, so they are spending more money for that."
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He explains that Sri Lankans usually either choose a "high country" styling for their weddings - drawing on the traditions of Kandy - or, as today, a "low country" one, where
the bride's clothing is closer to Indian tradition.
He has said he styled Nadini "like a Roman princess".
The groom and his close friends are dressed in an entirely Western style.
While some Western customs are popular, best man Hasitha Wijesekera says it is important to hang on to more traditional Sri Lankan elements.
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"Though we have mixed weddings, it doesn't mean that we have just let go of our cultural values," he says.
"I think it's a very good thing to have the poruwa ceremony and there's a lot of meaning in it."
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Nadini, being a famous singer, gives a wedding surprise to her new husband by getting up to sing with the band, The Gypsies, one of the most successful in the country.
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